Friday, July 30, 2004

Fat Chance

Anonymous asked:
I want to see my boyfriend a lot fatter than he is but don't know how to tell him. I just think a big belly looks a lot more mascualine and well, sexy. What should I do?

Anonymous answered:
You need to cook for him, cook plenty of carbs... just tell him that you think that it wouldn't hurt if he looked a little bit bigger and if he can't accept that then you just have to find another guy or just accept the fact that he will be that size.

bubbaqgal answered:
Why not leave him alone? If he is happy with the weight he is, then it isn't your place to make him fat. How would you like it if he, or anyone, told you that you were too fat or too skinny?

Thursday, July 29, 2004


Anonymous asked:
Will God forgive you for self-murder?

Happykadiebug answered:

Blackdove answered:
I was alway's taught that God will not forgive one for self-murder.

Nene answered:
I'm not 100 percent sure but if you are dead how can you ask for forgiveness...?

Lil bball answered:
Well rules have it "Thou shalt not murder," but I think that if you are sorry with all of your heart, and are still alive, that God forgives anyone.

Anonymous answered:

Wednesday, July 28, 2004

Crossing the Property Line

Anonymous asked:
What can I do when my neighbour builds a wall on top of my garden fence?

Rosalie answered:
If your garden fence is inside your property limits then he is constructing on YOUR property. It seems that you could get an order or something for its destruction. I would see a lawyer and find out what I could do. A few minutes of any lawyer's time is free so call one and use it up.

Schrodinger's Crab

Anonymous asked:
How do I know when my hermit crab is dead?

rltlady answered:
if you pick it up and it doesn't move, it's probably dead. If it starts to really stink in a couple days, then it's definitely dead.

Tuesday, July 27, 2004


Anonymous asked:
A movie was shown on T.V. about 6/7 years ago about an inn keeper in occupied Belgium, his girl friends and how they were fooling the germans, working behind there back. It was a comedy, and I just can't remember the name. I believe it was British.

Anonymous answered:
Is it called Hello Hello?

Thos answered:
'ello 'ello. look for news of this series at :

Joan answered:
It might have been 'ello 'ello, but that wasn't a movie, it was a TV series. Also it was set in France. Also, in my opinion, it wasn't a comedy, lol.

Heavy Head

Anonymous asked:
How much does a human head weigh?

Dee20_20 answered:
3 to 7 lbs

Monday, July 26, 2004

Gas-guzzling, the Cool Way

Anonymous asked:
Does using the air conditoner in your vehicle use up your gas?

Rosalie answered:
The air conditioner puts a bit of drag on the engine which makes the engine use more gas to continue moving so yep it does use a tad more gas.

Friday, July 23, 2004

Ready or Not

Anonymous asked:
I'm seventeen years old and ive been with my bf for almost two years, we have been talking about sex and i think im ready for that next step, what safety precaautions do you recommend?

Momof2 answered:
Well, I think it's very nice that you waited to have sex with your boyfriend. You sound mature enough to handle the mental aspects of having sex with a partner. And kudos to you for asking about safety precautions! Please, use a condom all the time. You should know when your period is due and when you ovulate (12-14 days after your period begins). Do not have sex during this time if you don't want to get pregnant. Also, you may want to think about going on birth control yourself. Not necessarily the Pill, but a diaphragm, IUD or some other sort of back-up protection. If you need any other information, please WIM me or write back. Good luck and congrats for being a mature teenager!

Thursday, July 22, 2004

Tied Up

Anonymous asked:
I'm going to a formal function this weekend. I'm wearing a black hugo boss suit and subtle pink shirt- what colour tie should I wear?

Anonymous answered:
Silver and pink or just silver maybe with some pale blue. I love pink shirts on men!

Wednesday, July 21, 2004

Burial Address Unknown

Anonymous asked:
Can you find out where someone was buried? Because my twin brothers died not long after birth and I would like to know where their grave is. My parents don't know either.

Anonymous answered:
You can go to to find the names of people buried in different cemetaries. If you know the city, you can check their cemetaries one by one online. Good luck.

Tuesday, July 20, 2004

Animal Cannibal

Blueangel asked:
I had a hamster (that was already pregnant when i bought her) and my when she was having her babies she ate them!!!! Why was this?

Anonymous answered:
Some do that. It's a type of chemical imbalance in the brain. But human contact can do it too. Especially if you were touching the babies. She doesn't recognise the smell, and so kills them. Same with birds.

Pet Lending Library?

Anonymous asked:
Does anyone know were the pet lending library is? My son won't shut up about it.

MtlCstr answered:
Never heard of a Library that loans actual pets - so I hope that isn't what he's expecting. Try this:

Moshi Moshi

Anonymous asked:
What does moshi moshi mean?

MtlCstr answered:
"hello" - Used exclusively for answering the phone.

Feeding the Franks

Anonymous asked:
How did Anne Frank and her family get food?

Kittyo answered:
The people who put the Frank family up supplied the food.

Monday, July 19, 2004

Hot Topic

Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend sweats until his armpits are wet (even when he's not doing anything), and I can't stand it. How do I tell him to fix this?

[Six answers from six different Wondir users were provided for this question]

Answer 1 (provided anonymously):

Deodorant Triple X.

Answer 2 (provided anonymously):

My boyfriend has the same problem and he is soooo embarrassed by it, so try to make him feel better, it's really not that big of a deal.

Answer 3 (provided anonymously):

Armpit tampons.

Answer 4 (provided anonymously): can't it's just the way he is...

Answer 5 (provided anonymously):

My boyfriend had the same problem. I talked him into shaving his armpits and it has really helped!

Answer 6 (provided by MtlCstr):

He will probably have to outgrow it. A good antiperspirant may help absorb some, but it's really just genetics and his age.

Friday, July 16, 2004

Spelling It Out

Anonymous asked:
How do you get your current job to appreachate you?

Mhardenbrook answered:
I hate to say it but if you spell this way on the job, it's no wonder they don't appreciate you. Do your job, get an education, use that education on your job, do more than is expected of you, ask questions, make it known you want to learn more than just your job. Then your employer will begin appreciating you.

Anonymous followed-up:
I'm a dj I don't need to spell!!! I ask questions and work my butt off everyday... I have been there 5 years and not one person has my track record. I'm always early never late...

Mhardenbrook answered:
If you feel unappreciated after five years with the same company then possibly you are not in the right job. People who don't make the effort to spell correctly usually don't make the effort to do other things correctly. You may not feel you need to spell correctly since you are a dj but in reality you write things everyday and anyone in management who sees what you write and the way you spell, they are going to be influenced. There is a young woman where I work who is very good at doing her job but when it comes to spelling and writing things down correctly; she is a nightmare. No matter how many times it is pointed out to her she doesn't see what the problem is. She will never be promoted because she presents her work as if she doesn't care. If she doesn't care then management is never going to care enough about her to give her a raise or a promotion. That is how employers view this. I am in management, I see it every day. You may not think it's fair, but it is the way it is.

Thursday, July 15, 2004

Learn Before You Leap

Anonymous asked: I’m 15 and really love this guy should we have sex?

Gin2772 answered: You have to know all about sex first. For example: Do you know what time of the month you can become pregnant? Do you know the different forms of birth control and are both of you willing to use them? Do you know that only condoms can prevent STD's? You need to know these things.

Death and Child Support

Texas asked:   How can I find out if my ex is dead or alive? It has been 4 1/2 yrs and he has disappered. I know his SS# & DOB. Are there any free search engines I can use to see if he is still alive or dead? He owes back child support and I am trying to terminate his Parental rights. Can anyone help??

Rltlady answered: There should be a way since you have his SS#. Do you know of a mortgage officer that would check his credit for you?

Spray & Stray

Anonymous asked:   I want to bring my outdoor cat inside as he is bullying my other cats but I know that he is going to spray, what can I do?

Rtlady answered : 
Get him neutered, he won't spray, or stray.

Wednesday, July 14, 2004

Q&A Today: A Romance Needs More than Romance

Anonymous asked:
I am 24 years old. Been married for three years, have 2 kids. I get the feeling that my wife no longer has interest in our relationship. She doesn't take care of her part of the romance. What should I do?

Raysn answered:
You are both very young with very young children. It could be that she is just preoccupied with the dulldrum of raising a family. When is the last time you both went out on a date? When is the last time you both sat down and just talked? She needs more than the sex. For her, the romance is going to be an all day thing from the first kind word you say to her to your telling her to go take a shower while you tuck the kids in. Show her your friendship. That is part of the romance. Then play a game with her after you have tried this for a week or so. Ask her how she rates you romantically. Make it a 1-10 scale. Don't ask her to let you rate her. Keep it with you. Then start asking her how she thinks you could improve your relationship with her. Keep it focused on you. If the focus is going to change to how she is pleasing you, let her be the one to change the focus. I am sure that if she is a normal woman and you dote on her like that and allow her time to be with you just talking and telling you how her day went and what her thoughts are, the intimacy level will go up exponentially.

Tuesday, July 13, 2004

Q&A Today: The Kid and the Cash

Anonymous asked:

How do I get a healthy 17 year old boy to get moving? He has no motivation to pay me back the approximately $900 he owes me for phone bill he ran up. He is only going to TAFE 16 hours per week, no hours during TAFE holidays. I offered to pay half of the cost of getting his drivers license ie. lessons with driving instructor. He is a good kid but he is frustrating me no end. Help.

Pluto answered:

He must understand the value of money. Charge him for things he would have to pay for if he wasn't in your home. Also, let him know that there is a deadline. He can't stay with you forever (maybe remind him that he can't ever be alone with a girl if he can't afford a flat to bring her to).